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Friday, September 02, 2005

9:16 PM

living on By Clarence Singam

juz read a post fm fridae on breaking up....

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well... i guess i agree on the author's stand... i guess we can never really forget wat our exs haf done and what we had done... u will still go to where u used to did something there and memories will flood back... the same goes for friendship... like going out... remembering funny things that happened.... remembered stupid things that happened... and these are things which u can never forget, much less ur ex...

well... actually for me, all along, i got this prospective (hope i spell it correctly) that we got to forget our ex totally before moving on... or else it will juz be a replacement... coz, u will juz keep on thinking bout ur ex... which i feel is not good.... however, how can we really forget?

come to think of it... was on my way home today... suddenly thought of... of all people, adrian... haha... mayb coz too many things goin on in my heard that reminds me of him ba.... haha.... well... i don think i can ever forget him... but like wat the author says, it is not bout forgetting... but i guess it is about not replacing... i guess there muz still be a certain amount of time to learn or rather to let go of ur ex before goin on to a newer relationship....

well... letting go of people is never easy... not when u guys spent so much time together.... i believe that time (duration) of a relationship is not wat causes the pain but rather wat was put in... it hurts more in my one mth or so relationship wif adrain that one that that lasted longer...

or mayb it juz towards the end... how much u still putting in... if at the end, already given up... i guess it will not hurt much.... but if u r still giving ur all.... i guess u will fall harder...

o well... that juz how relationship goes.... be it frenship or any other.... as long as u haf interpersonal relationship this thing can happen... juz a bit worst in steady relationship....

mayb talked too much about this liao... i think i shoould b looking for my someone soon.... so anyone got someone tall to intro? haha~~

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